Disputes usually be the most avoided. The worst possible result could destroy the relationship. But if we look from a positive angle, it also has the benefit disputes. Surely we should look at the positive side of the dispute, that is not making the fight, but as a venue for discussion and argument. If it can be seen from the side, then we know its benefits. What is it?
1. Led to the idea
When disputing, you will let others try to correct our mistakes. On the bright side, fights able to create things and creative ideas that you never think about.
2. Getting what you want
Most people do not get what they want because they are often silent. But through the disputes, sometimes all the feelings expressed and latent desire to disassemble one.
3. Flexible Learning
in a fair quarrel is trying to convince others of your opinion as well as learn to be flexible so that you can also be sure that other people's opinions.
4. Learning to hear the
dispute could end well if both parties want to listen to each other. So muffled first emotion to know what the intent of the other person before attacking recklessly.
5. Understanding personality
When in dispute, you will learn about the thoughts and personalities of others. That way, you would be more careful when dealing with people at the same time.
6. Finding solutions
dispute would require a good solution. That's the important benefits of the dispute, which mature in a way you bend over backwards to find a solution.
7. Communication practice
more often at loggerheads, the better your ability to disagree. Not that you have to often disagree, but do not be afraid to confront and resolve the issue.
8. Controlling myself
After so many disputes are experienced, you should have the wisdom to deal with it. Because disputes also teaches you to control your emotions yourself.
9. Understanding differences
Everyone obviously has different views. With the odds, you will understand the difference. There is nothing wrong with a difference if you can appreciate it.
10. Establish a reputation
odds will indirectly establish your reputation in public. So when it dispute, self-control is in the hands, if you want to be known as the creator or the mediator a problem.
Regards, Dwi Hartoyo, SP
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